hopes

We have discussed "leaving it to God" and moving in on my fertile window a day or two. Seeing if it would possibly give us the slight chance of getting pregnant, but only with a girl. After much research it seems the best way to try for a girl outside of a laboratory. We're still not sure if we will, because I don't want a 3rd so close in age. For example, if we were to get pregnant this cycle our toddler would be under 2 1/2. He's still mostly unintelligible nonsense. Our 4 year old was only a few months older when the baby was born. They fight like cats and dogs. 

My husband is also concerned that I would then want a 6th so She would have a playmate. I honestly couldn't care less about that. I was the 3rd wheel and had a rather peaceful childhood whole my close in age siblings were busy driving each other nuts.