So do you value ME? The real me. The person I am when you get nothing from me. Or do you value the fact that I agreed to be your wife. Do you value ME or as the person you expect to cook for you. Clean for you. Provide sex for you. Emotional support for you. Care for your children. Etc.
If you value ME then you will care if I am happy. If I feel complete. You will encourage me to do what makes me feel complete. You will ask me how my day was. Not be mad I worked when you wanted me to stay home. Not expecting me to do everything to care for our family when I worked all day. You do not come home from work and make food for the kids and change diapers. You eat and relax. Why I not entitled to the same thing every other week on the one day i get to work outside the house? Why am I not entitled to work that one day every week? I don't understand how I am supposed to feel valued and complete when it feels like my only worth to others is what I do for them or they get from me.
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